Have you heard the buzz about sex toys for men? Yep, there’s a good chance some men are using them. If that makes you clutch your pearls and ask, “Are they whores?” relax. This article will take a look at things like this, why men use sex toys, and much more.
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When I was 16 I spent the night at my best friend’s house with her partner when she whipped out a lime green vibrator
When I was 16 I spent the night at my best friend’s house with her partner when she whipped out a lime green vibrator. It was awkward.
That is until she turned it on and we both laughed.
I had no idea that men used sex toys, but apparently, they do because there are now male sex toys for sale on Amazon and eBay.
Why would a man use a sex toy? Well, let’s look at the benefits of using these devices:
- You can control your orgasm
- You can make yourself last longer in bed (no more premature ejaculation!)
- You can get more pleasure from sex with your partner (or alone!)
There are simply things sex toys can do that a human partner can’t
Have you ever heard the line, “I can’t believe he used a sex toy?”
It’s a joke that has been a running gag for years as men are often portrayed as being afraid of sex toys. This stereotype is so widespread that even in popular culture, films like The 40-Year-Old Virgin and Superbad have entire scenes dedicated to mocking men who use dildos.
But it’s time to put this myth to bed. A recent study by Adam & Eve showed that not only are men using sex toys more than ever before, but they’re also buying them with their partners in mind.
It was a very quick ‘yes’ from me when she suggested we begin experimenting with sex toys during sex
I’m not sure if this is a common experience, but I don’t think my wife and I have ever had a conversation about sex toys. Not once.
We have used them in the past, but since we’re both pretty open-minded individuals we didn’t feel the need to discuss it with each other beforehand. It was a very quick ‘yes’ from me when she suggested we begin experimenting with sex toys during sex.
As far as I can tell, this seems to be the norm for most couples that use sex toys in their bedroom routine.
In fact, according to a study conducted by Adam & Eve last year (which surveyed over 1,000 people), only 9% of men admitted to using sex toys alone while 41% of women did so alone. But when asked if they used them in conjunction with their partner, more men than women said yes (58% vs 42%).
Sex toys can be very revealing. Is the person you sleep with invested in your pleasure as well as theirs?
When it comes to sex toys, men are often the last to know. But things are changing.
Despite some of the stereotypes about men’s attitudes toward sex toys and masturbation, a growing number of men are starting to experiment with sex toys and other forms of self-pleasure.
Men now use vibrators and dildos, they buy lube by the gallon and they watch porn. They shave their balls and trim their pubes. They take down their pants in front of other men at sex parties and experiment with BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism/masochism) play.
But many men still feel uncomfortable talking openly about their use of adult products — whether it’s lube or condoms — or their experience with masturbation. And that means there is a lot we don’t know about how men really feel about sex toys, how much they use them, and how they like them.
It’s easier for me to have an orgasm
The answer is yes, and if you’re a woman who has ever been with a man, you know that they are using sex toys.
We all know that men like to masturbate; it’s just how they’re wired. We also know that some men prefer sex toys to real women, but why? The answer is simple: because it’s easier for me to have an orgasm!
You see, when I was younger I never really understood the concept of masturbation. I always thought that it was something dirty and wrong, so I never tried it. But now that I am older and wiser (and hornier) I understand that masturbation can be fun and exciting! It also helps relieve stress and tension which is important for men who work long hours every day or travel frequently as part of their job.
With toys, we deliberately take our time and push each other to our limits
A few years ago, I was having one of those conversations with a friend about sex and relationships. The kind where we were both thinking about how our generation of men are different from their fathers and grandfathers.
In the past, the conventional wisdom was that men didn’t use sex toys or even enjoy them. That was something gay men did or women who were desperate to get off. But my friend made an interesting point: he said that he thought more men were using toys than ever before because they were more open to trying new things in bed.
That got me thinking: are more men using sex toys? And if so, why? And what kind?
For men using sex toys, or who want to play sex
If you’re a man who has ever used a sex toy, you may have been called “gay” “weird” or even worse. But the fact is that men are using sex toys more than ever before.
There are several reasons why this is happening. For one thing, technology has made it easier for men to find and buy sex toys online. And for another, there are more and more straight men who want to experiment with their sexuality and try new things in bed.
Sex toys can be fun for couples too. You can use them together or have your partner use one on you while they pleasure themselves with another vibrator. It’s a great way to explore your sexual fantasies together without having to worry about getting pregnant or catching an STD from someone else (because as far as I know, no STDs can be transferred via sex toys).
It’s great to have my partner pick something she likes and then let me use it on her in ways we both like
It’s great to have my partner pick something she likes and then let me use it on her in ways we both like, and it also makes it clear that I took the time to get something just for her.
Final words
The world of sex toys is growing, and there’s no reason why men can’t be a part of it. In fact, they’re already a large part of the customer base. It may not be likely that your man has a drawer full of dildos, but it also might not be so far out of the realm of possibility as you think. Sex toys are changing the way people approach their sex lives and helping people experience even more satisfaction than before. Who knows? Maybe your man will surprise you one day with a fun little sex toy for the bedroom.